Much like the paths that led a couple to marriage, the paths that led them to divorce are unique to the couple. Divorce can happen for many reasons, but when a spouse files for divorce, there are only a few options when it comes to handling the process.
Because divorce can be a costly and lengthy process, it is often ideal when spouses can agree on the important issues. Unfortunately, this is not always possible. When spouses cannot agree on all decisions concerning their divorce, they must move forward with a litigation process to reach a final divorce order.
Collaborative divorce
It is important to consider negotiation, mediation and collaborative methods when moving forward with a divorce.
A Collaborative Divorce is more than a divorce method based on the parties working together to reach a final divorce order. What makes this process unique is that the parties agree to avoid litigating their divorce and, instead, hire a team of specially trained professionals to help them navigate their divorce to final resolution. It is important to note that both parties must be willing participants in a Collaborative Divorce as a court will not order it. In fact, most times the court is not even aware a divorce is going on until the team is well into the negotiation phase.
Factors to consider
The success of a Collaborative Divorce is often based on the cooperation and open communication of the parties. When deciding if this is the right process for your divorce, you should assess the dynamics of your communication with the other party and your ability to cooperate.
You should also consider the financial implications involved with this process in comparison to other divorce methods. Additionally, it is always important to take the time to reflect on yourself and your needs.
Divorce is not easy and is often difficult to navigate on your own. Taking the time to inform yourself of your options as well as your rights is important. A consultation with a trained Collaborative attorney or Divorce Coach can help you analyze whether a Collaborative Divorce may be a good fit or whether there is another process that would be more suitable for you. If you are interested in learning more, contact our office for a free consultation.